"I'm not good enough."
Um, yes you are. Despite the impression we may be under due to the abundance of stunning pro-level YouTube videos floating around out there, pole comps aren't strictly for professionals. Nearly all competitions offer the option to compete as a novice, which generally means that no inverted skills are allowed in performances at that level. Judges will focus primarily on clean execution of beginner-level skills, stage presence, and musicality (which is basically how well your choreography matches the music). Although level descriptions may vary slightly from comp to comp, you'll find that novice, intermediate, advanced, elite, semi-pro and pro are pretty standard. Each comp offers detailed descriptions of what is expected in performances at each level, to give you an accurate idea of which level is most appropriate for you. Some comps go as far as to break down each level into age category, to further even the playing field. No matter your skill level, pole comps offer an excellent opportunity to gain experience, meet new people, and have fun doing what you love.
"I've heard that competitions are catty and cutthroat."
This was a huge fear of mine before I attended my first comp. And yes, there are a few bad apples in every bunch. But I have personally found comps to be an overwhelmingly positive experience. The energy backstage is nervous, excited, and supportive. Everyone is worried about missing a trick, not sticking to the pole, or having a prop malfunction. Everyone wants to do well, and believe it or not, everyone wants YOU to do well, too. At the end of the day, each and every competitor has something in common: love of pole. It's incredibly motivating to be surrounded by so many like-minded individuals.
"I don't want to embarrass myself."
What does that mean, exactly? So, like, what if you fall off the pole? *shrug* So what if you do? The audience will gasp, and when you get up to finish your routine, the whole place is going to go nuts. They want you to do well. The judges will dock your score accordingly, and the rest of your routine will speak for itself. What if you place last in your group? *shrug* Oh, well. Someone finishes last, every single time. There are still a hundred polers at home who weren't brave enough to get up on stage and do what you did. And you'll come home with professional photos and video to show your family and friends, and they will think you are amazing, regardless.
"I'd have no idea where to start with creating a routine."
Use your resources. Talk to your instructors and fellow polers, and ask what works for them. Find inspiration in blogs and videos online. Keep in mind that many pros hire choreographers to help them develop routines, and although no one expects you to do that at an amateur level, private lessons with an instructor may help you find your groove. Most comps have a Facebook group for competitors to join and ask questions. People are always asking about things like if a certain skill is allowed in a particular level, costumes, and when/where they need to be on competition day. It's also a great place to find support if you're having trouble. Odds are, if you are struggling, someone else is too. Buddy up with a friend at your studio or online, and make a plan to support each other and keep each other accountable.
"I'm just too scared."
Competitions aren't for everyone. I know some incredible polers who have no interest in competitions or performing, and that is totally okay. But if it's crossed your mind and something continues to hold you back, consider why that may be. If you never enter a pole comp, will you regret your choice? Unfortunately, our bodies don't last forever. They have expiration dates. Poling at 40 is different than poling at 27. And circumstances change! We get new jobs, we move, we have children... All I'm saying is don't sell yourself short, and don't let fear be the reason you look back with regret. Worst-case scenario, you realize competitions are simply not for you. At least you'll know, and you won't have to wonder.
Bottom line, from me to you: GO FOR IT. You are good enough, you are worth it, and you do deserve your moment on stage. I had been poling for almost 5 years before I registered for my first competition, primarily because my studio prior to that time offered me no support, and I was unaware of the resources at my disposal. I dearly wish I could have those years back! The fun I could have had, the relationships I could have developed... If you're feeling lost, reach out. There is an entire community of people out there, just a few clicks away. We all know the feelings of insecurity and doubt. They fear of being judged by our appearance. We also know the sense of triumph, and the pride of accomplishment that comes with having achieved what we never dreamt was possible.
You. Can. Do. This.
